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  • When was the last time you agreed to do something you REALLY didn’t want to do but felt like you couldn’t say no?
  • Or avoided people all together because you didn’t want to have to deal with them stressing you out and overwhelming you with all of their wants, needs and demands?
  • Or felt angry and resentful when someone asked you to do something that you CLEARLY had no time or capacity to take on?
  • Or felt like everyone would think you were selfish or indulgent if you took care of yourself and your own wants and needs sometimes?
  • Or felt overwhelmed with everything you have on your plate and felt like you had no choice and HAD to do it all, and could never (or very rarely) ever say no?
  • Or allowed someone to treat you or someone you love in a way that you didn’t like, but you didn’t want to say anything and risk causing a conflict?

Do you know that these, and so many other issues in our lives come up for us because we’re not clear on what our boundaries are, or how to realistically, respectfully, and effectively set them?

*The Good News*

You can change how you think, feel, and respond to every single one of these any many other issues that come up, and become much more empowered and in charge of yourself and your life when you have clear and HEALTHY boundaries.

Boundary Setting Bootcamp is an in-depth and effective 6-session course that is going to teach you exactly what you need to know about having healthy boundaries so you can:

  • STOP: Feeling angry, resentful, and frustrated with others for overwhelming you with their problems, demands, requests and needs.
  • RECOGNIZE: What your wants, needs and preferences really are and be able to communicate them in a healthy and effective way.
  • SEE: Where your boundaries are BEFORE they are crossed and things (aka, you) start to fall apart.
  • SHARE: What your needs are without feeling selfish.
  • SAY: No without feeling guilty and YES without feeling forced to.
  • FEEL: More confident, at ease, and empowered within yourself and your ability to show up authentically in your life and in your relationships.
I WANT IN!

How Do I Know How To Help You Do All Of This?

Because I am a Clinical Counsellor with a Master’s Degree in Counselling Psychology. And not only have I dedicated countless hours to learning the research based methods for understanding and communicating our boundaries in healthy ways, I have also worked with hundreds of men and women teaching them how to create EFFECTIVE, REALISTIC, and SUSTAINABLE boundaries in their lives.

I have seen how this stuff changes people in so many positive and empowering ways. Myself included.

Throughout the 6 modules with me, we are going to make big shifts. This is going to be a game changer, and I’m going to teach you what you need to know to make these changes last.

What the Healthy Boundaries Bootcamp Course Looks Like:

*SIX* In-depth, detailed and comprehensive modules teaching all of the tools, techniques, strategies and mindset shifts needed to have healthy boundaries.

A workbook with exercises, key points and questions to reflect on more deeply to ensure that you get the most from this course.

Here’s What The Six Modules Will Cover:

  • Module 1

    Intentions & Awareness of Boundaries

    –  Why  you struggle with having and setting boundaries

    –  How your family while growing up kept you from learning how to have boundaries

    –  What healthy boundaries looks like

    –  The sure-fire signs to watch for to know when one of your boundaries  has been crossed

  • Module 2

    Getting Clear on What’s Important

    – Getting clear on which areas of your life you struggle most with your boundaries

    – Getting clear on what keeps you from setting boundaries in those situations

    – Why our loved ones often have a hard time with our boundaries and how to get through that

    – Learning  what we value most in life, and how to protect and respect those things

  • Module 3

    What’s Okay and What’s Not Okay When It Comes to Boundaries

    –  The types of very unhealthy boundaries and how you can change those

    – Why not having boundaries can be really harmful to you and your relationships

    – How to tell if you boundaries are being ignored, mocked or disrespected and how to deal with that

  • Module 4

    Boundary Myths and Truths

    – Why boundary setting can be so confusing and overwhelming and what to do about that

    – Boundary myths that most of us are holding that are keeping us from having or setting healthy boundaries

    – Boundary truths that will guide and inform when to set healthy boundaries in the best way

  • Module 5

    Getting Down to the Nitty Gritty

    – The specific step by step and fail proof strategy for setting your healthy and effective boundaries

    –  Changing your mindset further about boundaries by reframing unhealthy boundary beliefs into healthy ones

  • Module 6

    Types of Boundaries and Seeing How Much You’ve Changed Through This Course

    – Specific boundary phrases for you to pull out and use in different situations

    – How to recognize the big positive changes healthy boundaries are and will continue to make in your life 

    – Strategies that will ensure of your work in this course will continue to make big positive changes in your life

I WANT IN!

Testimonials

zee-testimonial picDoing Boundary Setting Bootcamp with Julia was life changing! Before working with her I was always feeling guilty and pressured to please everyone around me. Julia showed me that I am allowed to set boundaries if and when I see fit, and that I am enough and can have a stronger sense of self-worth when I allow myself do. Julia is a great listener, communicator, and educator. She gives you actionable steps that lead to results! Thanks again for the amazing course! It was truly eye opening and I am forever changed! – Zee N.

“Julia brings her thoughtful and approachable personality to her courses. The course design is interactive, informative, VERY useful, and practical. There’s a great balance between teaching and empowering. Boundary Setting Bootcamp will give you the powerful core shifts you need to change your life long term, rather than a non-lasting quick fix for the symptoms.”
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Simone S.

terry testimonial pics“I learn something every time I hear Julia speak, and that was absolutely true in this course.  I learned so many insights and important truths through this course that have changed the way I see myself, my life, and my relationships.  Julia uses excellent word-pictures to convey her ideas, and then follows up with a simple phrase that captures the essence of that message.  I would recommend this course without a second thought.” – Terry C.

“I was really excited when I signed up to do Julia’s program because I thought working with Julia I was going to learn some good ways to say “No” – I had no idea this course was going to change my life.”
” – 
Elizabeth N.

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